How to recognize, and survive, narcissistic leaders | practice (split each time) | Exec relied on hope, determination after early setbacks
November 14, 2024
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How to recognize, and survive, narcissistic leaders
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You can recognize narcissistic leaders by traits such as grandiosity, entitlement and manipulation, which may have initially helped them ascend to leadership roles, write Melissa Wheeler and Saima Ahmad, who observe that these same traits often lead to their downfall as they create a hostile work environment and prioritize self-interest over team well-being. Protect yourself by setting boundaries, keeping written notes of interactions, practicing emotional detachment and finding trusted colleagues to share your concerns, they advise.
Full Story: Psychology Today (11/13) 
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Put it into practice: If setting boundaries, keeping your distance and managing interactions don't work with a narcissistic boss, it may be time to look for another job, Wheeler and Ahmad write. "It is important to remember that dealing with a narcissistic leader can be emotionally draining and may have long-lasting effects on individuals' well-being."
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Exec relied on hope, determination after early setbacks
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Angela Thomas earned three degrees by the time she was 30, despite a rocky start and a teenage pregnancy, by relying on two key attributes of hope and determination, she says in this interview with John Baldoni. "You start to look for ways to make your dreams and realities your dreams come true to make them realities," says Thomas, who is now an executive with MedHealth.
Full Story: SmartBrief/Leadership (11/13) 
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Put it into practice: Thomas shares with Baldoni her inspiring journey from her book, "Bullets, Babies, and Boardrooms: Success Secrets from a Teenage Mother," and emphasizes that no one can succeed alone. "You must have people around you who are champions for you and for what you're trying to achieve," Thomas says.
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Emails with clear subject lines that get to the point will ensure higher rates of response, writes Kathleen Davis, host of The New Way We Work podcast. According to a study, emails between 50 and 125 words received the best response rates, while people were more likely to open emails if they were familiar with the sender.
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Put it into practice: If your email requires an action, Davis recommends putting that front and center in the subject line for best results. "Sometimes people don't respond to your email because it's not clear if you need a response," Davis writes.
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About The Editor
Candace Chellew
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I have worked for several narcissistic leaders over my career. Their confidence and charisma took them into high leadership positions, but working for them was a chore. I've worked for a micromanager who checked offices each morning to make sure you were there and working. I've worked for a couple of control freaks who needed to know your every move. I've worked for a sadist who took pleasure in making the staff miserable.

All these jobs have one thing in common: I left. Not only did I go for a better job, many of my colleagues did as well. This is the natural consequence of a narcissistic leader -- they drive away talented people who can go elsewhere.

It may be tempting to put charismatic and manipulative people into leadership roles because they will get things done. But at what cost to your overall organization? You may meet your KPIs, but you may also be spending a ton of money hiring and onboarding new staff because your top talent has fled the building.

Those who can walk away from a narcissistic boss will, for their own well-being and career growth. Those who stay will be demoralized and drag your company down even more.

As Wheeler and Ahmad note: "This results in reduced performance, lower productivity, and stifled collaboration and creativity in the teams they lead. All this boils down to a significant waste of human potential."

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